00:00Well, there's things you don't say on a date, and this would be one of them.
00:03Things you don't talk about on a date, and just oversharing way too much.
00:07That's what Jessica did on her date with Brett.
00:08They went to Four Beachy, great place.
00:10Brett is, quote-unquote, an older guy, which he said,
00:14I haven't really done that before, but I thought I'd give it a shot.
00:17I think she had alternative motives, especially when you kind of hear her talk
00:19and kind of maybe her maturity level not quite there.
00:22Check this out. Let us know what you think.
00:24Leave a comment. Would you have gone back out with her?
00:25All right. We had Jessica reach out to us today.
00:28They went to a great place.
00:29They went to Four Beachy.
00:30Beautiful.
00:30Always awesome.
00:31Yeah, I mean, she said she didn't really date older guys.
00:34It's not something she normally does, but it turned out to be she's had a pretty awesome date,
00:38and she was excited about it.
00:40Yeah, so we're going to see if we can get some answers right now.
00:42We actually have Brett on hold.
00:43Kevin was able to get him on hold, got his permission so that we could talk to him on the air.
00:48Let's bring him on right now.
00:49Brett, you there?
00:50Good morning.
00:51How are you?
00:53Not bad.
00:54Okay, well, thank you so much.
00:55I'm sure you're trying to figure out what's going on here.
00:57We want to actually talk to you about a date you went on with Jessica.
01:00I guess you guys met on Match.com.
01:02I got to tell you, man, she absolutely gushed over you, and she said it was just great to be on a date with somebody who is very mature
01:11and who is just well-rounded, and the conversation was very good.
01:16Now she's trying to get a hold of you to go on another date, and we're thinking, man, this girl really thinks the best of you.
01:21So why have you not responded to her texts?
01:23Because you have been getting them, right?
01:25I've gotten a couple of texts from her.
01:27I'm really surprised that you guys even got, you know, are able to talk to her as busy as she is with her dating life.
01:32Okay, I kind of feel like that wasn't a little bit of a jab.
01:35Brett, what do you mean by that?
01:37Well, I mean, you know, it was like, you know, we did have some decent conversation,
01:41but most of the conversation was about all the dates she's been going on through Match.
01:45And it's just like one after another.
01:46She kept going on and on about it.
01:48All right, so are we talking about, like, past relationships,
01:50or she's telling you about other dates she's been on recently?
01:54Yeah, it was ridiculous.
01:56Like, I couldn't even believe it.
01:57I'm like, I'm sitting across from a serial dater here.
01:59Well, I mean, you are dating, but I guess hearing about all, like, a bunch of dates probably isn't the best.
02:06Yeah, so that was just what kind of turned you off?
02:09A huge turnoff.
02:10Like, I couldn't, I mean, it wasn't like I wanted to escape and run out of the place,
02:13but I definitely wasn't giving her a second chance.
02:16No way.
02:17Okay.
02:17Are you dating quite a bit now or no?
02:20Not really.
02:20I mean, you know, I date when I date.
02:23It's not that often, but I'm a busy guy.
02:25I own my own business.
02:26Right.
02:26But you're not lining them up back to back like you feel like she is.
02:30Absolutely not.
02:31I just, I don't believe in that.
02:32It's not my way.
02:34Well, she is really into you.
02:36I mean, she did reach out to us, so that's kind of got to mean something right there.
02:39Yeah.
02:40So, Brent, I kind of want to bring her back on with us.
02:42We actually have her on hold.
02:43That's how we got your number.
02:44Jessica, are you there?
02:45That's fantastic.
02:46Oh, my gosh.
02:47Hi.
02:48Jessica, it doesn't seem like the best approach on a date to be just talking about all these
02:51other dates you've been on.
02:52No, I didn't mean it like that.
02:54I was just, I guess I was just talking about, like, how different you are than the guys that
02:59I usually go out with, and I was just being honest.
03:02I like you so much.
03:03I wasn't trying to be offensive or disrespectful.
03:08You're just different than, you know, guys that I usually go out with.
03:12It wasn't a good look.
03:13It just was not a good look.
03:15You know, you kept going on and on about all these dates you've been going on.
03:18Like, I don't know how to even take that.
03:21I guess I just was letting you know that you're so different than everybody else, and that's
03:27why I like you.
03:28I mean, I went out with this guy a couple nights ago, and it's like, he's just not Brett.
03:35Like, I had such a good time with Brett.
03:37You're reaching out to me and texting me and asking me to go out again, and you're dating
03:42other people still.
03:43How serious could you be?
03:45I mean, I really like you.
03:48What?
03:49I didn't realize that I was offending you.
03:52I wasn't offended.
03:54I was just kind of shocked that that was what you wanted to talk about.
03:58I mean, I don't know.
04:00I guess I was nervous, and I was just letting you know, like, you're so different, and you're
04:06the real deal, and I like you.
04:09And, I mean, I wanted to take a chance on somebody that's just different, you know?
04:14I wanted to take a chance on an older guy.
04:17Oh, my God.
04:18Older guy?
04:19Yikes.
04:20What?
04:21I'm not that much older.
04:24Yeah, I mean, we don't have to get into numbers.
04:25I mean, there's a compliment.
04:29Jessica, girl, you're kind of digging yourself a bigger hole here.
04:32I mean, listen, if you were to go out with Brett, I mean, can we tone back the frequency
04:38of all these dates?
04:39I know they call it dating, but, I mean, I don't think he wants to hear about it.
04:42That's for sure.
04:42That's for sure.
04:44Oh, my God, yes.
04:45I'm so sorry.
04:46I guess I just, I was nervous, and I wanted you to know that I was, I don't know.
04:52I'm going to stop talking, because I think that makes me feel better.
04:55I mean, I hate to say it, but that might be the best tactic right here.
05:00Brett, would you be willing to go on another date with her?
05:02I mean, it sounds like she's really into you, and, I mean, she did reach out to us.
05:06I mean, the truth of the matter is that, you know, it really turned me off.
05:09I mean, I might consider it, I guess.
05:13Yay!
05:15Oh, thank you so much, you guys.
05:18Oh!
05:18I can't promise I'm not going to do any of the talking.
05:23Well, you're going to have to talk a little.
05:25Yeah.
05:25I think you just know what not to talk about now.
05:29Oh, yay.
05:30I'm so glad that you're going to give me a chance, Brett.
05:33Absolutely.
05:34I'll take another shot.
05:36All right.
05:37Well, here, here's what we're going to do.
05:38We're going to put you guys on hold.
05:39I'll make sure I have all your info.
05:41Kevin's going to get it as well, and we will set you up on another date at a restaurant
05:45that you like.
05:46We'll pay for it.
05:47And I really want to hear a follow-up from this, so make sure you let us know how it
05:50goes.
05:52All right.
05:53All right?
05:53Absolutely.
05:54Brett, you're cool with that?
05:55Yeah.
05:56I'll give it a shot.
05:57We'll see how it goes.
05:58You sound popular.
05:58I'll definitely call you guys afterwards.
06:01All right.
06:01Well, listen, you guys are going to go on hold right now, and like I said, we'll get all
06:05your info, but I wish you luck.
06:06Thank you so much.
06:07You got it, guys.
06:08Hang on.
06:09I don't think she ever really completely comprehended what was going on.
06:12No!
06:13I do think that she, the idea of dating an older guy, I think there's some other motives
06:16there, maybe.
06:18I just, I'm really surprised he wanted to go back out with her again.
06:21I was very surprised, too.
06:22I mean, that was interesting, because I feel like she never once was, she was like, ah.
06:26I don't know, she didn't sound too convincing to me.
06:28Not only that, it didn't sound too convincing that she got why that was not a good idea.
06:32No, I don't know about this one.
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