00:04You really believe that you should finish your studies to be successful in life.
00:09Yes, that's it.
00:10You're very good.
00:11Well, I agree, but I don't think...
00:15It's the only way.
00:18It's for... it's what you think.
00:20It's for everybody.
00:21I agree, not the normal agree.
00:25I would agree because you learn from the experience.
00:29More than anything.
00:31I don't agree with society that you should have a degree to be successful in life.
00:37Because there are so many successful people who don't have a degree.
00:40Yes.
00:41It's like you don't define your value as an academic.
00:47Because there are so many who thrive besides the academic and book smart world.
00:52And maybe it also depends on what kind of success you want to achieve.
00:58Yes.
00:59Diba?
00:59Kasi kung gusto mo, pera, pera, pera.
01:02Bill Gates ka.
01:03Diba?
01:03Mark Zuckerberg level.
01:05Yung talaga.
01:06Baka kailangan mong mas magkayad pa.
01:08Hindi lahat kasing swerte ni Bill Gates.
01:10Diba?
01:11Dahil lahat Bill Gates.
01:12So, siguro kailangan lang.
01:14Gawin mo lahat ng pwede mong gawin.
01:16Ano kaya mong gawin.
01:17To achieve the kind of success that you like.
01:19Oo.
01:20At ano bang definition mo of success din?
01:22Yan.
01:23Kasi magkakaiba tayo ng definition kung ano ang success.
01:26So, depende kung ano yung goal mo of what success is.
01:31What fulfills you?
01:32So, tatanungin mo, tuwing nahihirapan ako.
01:35Ito lang ah.
01:36Parang payo lang din sa mga honorables.
01:38And sa inyo, na pag mayroong challenge sa isang araw.
01:43Ano ba yung pangarap ko sa buhay nung bata ako?
01:46Pinapaala namin sa rinyo.
01:47I always go back.
01:48I always go back.
01:50Ano ba yun?
01:50Pangarap ko maging nanay.
01:51Wait.
01:52Nakuha ko ba?
01:53Oo.
01:54Totoo.
01:54With flying colors, I think.
01:55Kasi pinapangarap mo, dini-dream mo maging nanay.
01:58Pangarap ko maging nanay.
02:01Wow.
02:01Talaga atin siya.
02:02Nung high school ako.
02:04So, you always go back there.
02:06Kasi maraming beses sa buhay mo, pag nandito ka na sa ganitong age, pag na-adulting ka na talaga,
02:12na feeling mo you are less of what you really are.
02:15That's true.
02:16Oo.
02:16Marami din ako yun.
02:18Lalo na yung isa kong anak nag-aaral sa isang malaking university din.
02:23Tapos yung mga nanay nila, lahat sila one income household.
02:26May mga nanay doon na tapos, na may degree.
02:29Hmm.
02:30Pero di pinili nilang mag full time sa anak nila.
02:34Because it's their personal choice.
02:37Hmm.
02:37Alam mo yun?
02:37Tapos misan, you feel, bakit ito lang ginagawa ko?
02:40May ganun.
02:42Bakit ito lang ginagawa ko?
02:44I should be doing more.
02:45No.
02:45Go back.
02:47Meron kang fix na ganitong trabaho.
02:49Sa tingin mo, saan ang gagaling yun?
02:51May insecurity nga ako.
02:53Pag compare.
02:53Kasi hindi ako nakatapos.
02:54Pag compare.
02:55Awe.
02:56Hmm.
02:56So bakit di mo tinapos yung college?
02:59Nag-work din ako eh.
03:00Yon.
03:00Kulang talaga kami sa pangkain lang ah.
03:03Kulang eh.
03:04So nag-work din ako.
03:05Tapos bumabagsak na ako.
03:07Hindi ko napapasokan yun.
03:08Antok ako eh.
03:09Tapos mahirap din nga yung sinasabi mo kanina.
03:11Alin, alin?
03:11Yung pag tumikita ka na.
03:13Oo, diba?
03:14Plus meron pang mga ideas na pumapasok sa...
03:16Kasi kapag ganun.
03:18Maaalmang hihinayan ko sa hours na binibigay mo.
03:21O oras na binibigay mo.
03:22Yung andito na yung pera kumikana.
03:22Na sayang kumikita sana ako ngayon.
03:24Yes.
03:24Oo.
03:26Kasi never mong makikita yung mga what if.
03:29Na, paano kung tinuloy ko to?
03:31Hindi mo makikita yung mga what should be.
03:34Yung mga mistake mo dapat.
03:35True.
03:35Kasi bata ka pa eh.
03:37Ako, as a kid din nun, hindi mo pa alam yung value nung knowledge,
03:42nung wisdom na natututunan mo from that experience
03:45because you're going through it pa.
03:48Wala pa yung resulta nung magandang effect sa'yo nun.
03:52I get it.
03:52Meron din kasi yung halimbawa,
03:54wag kang ano, tumalun dyan, mauuntog ka.
03:57Ngayon kung sinunod mo na wag kang tumalun,
03:59hindi mo naman talaga alam kung mauntog ka, diba?
04:01Pero gusto mo bang malaman?
04:03Oo.
04:03Diba?
04:04So yun lang.
04:05Yung akin, nagtrabaho na ako.
04:07Tapos na untog.
04:10Napalian pa yan siya.
04:12So nagtrabaho na ako.
04:13Nag starstruck na.
04:16Nag starstruck na ako.
04:17Kaya ka meron pang mga nagsasabi,
04:19bakit ka pa mag-aaral?
04:20Same.
04:21Sa akin naman iba nagsasabi,
04:22ba't ka pa mag-aaral?
04:23Kasi gusto ko talaga eh.
04:24Kaya ko na pag-aaral ni sarili ko.
04:26So pang mag-aaral eh,
04:28may kinikita ka na.
04:29Ang ganda nakita ko.
04:31Diba?
04:31Pero totoo yung sinabi mo.
04:33Kung marami kang dalang sandata,
04:35why not?
04:36If you can do everything,
04:38why not?
04:39Diba?
04:40Manage it.
04:41Pero tandaan mo sa sarili mo
04:42na pinili mo yan.
04:44Diba?
04:45Panindigan mo.
04:46Dama naman.
04:47Yes.
04:47Kung di mo na kaya, okay.
04:49Balik ko.
04:49So mga sasabi mo?
04:50Sumakses ka.
04:52I feel like I am successful.
04:54Yes, you are.
04:54In my own way.
04:55Yes, you are.
04:56You are.
04:57Dapat alam mo yun.
04:58Gusto ko ba ng diploma?
05:00Yes.
05:01Gusto mo ba?
05:02So game ka pa mag-aaral ulit?
05:04Gusto ko,
05:04pero malayo pa siguro.
05:05Baka pag malalaki na yung kids.
05:07Pero malungkot lang kasi nga,
05:09laki ko sinasabi,
05:10lahat ng kapatid ko nakapagtapos
05:12tapos halos lahat,
05:13tatlo sa kanila kumlaudi din eh.
05:15Wow.
05:16Professionals di sila.
05:17Tapos,
05:18ako ay assisted in some way
05:20sa kanilang buhay,
05:22sa pag-aaral.
05:23Diba may doktora?
05:24Oo.
05:25Pero ako yung hindi nakatapos.
05:27Okay lang yun eh.
05:28Pero pag tinignan mo,
05:30achievement ko din yun.
05:31Oo, sa'yo din yun.
05:32Oo.
05:33Ang achievement ko na,
05:34wow,
05:35hindi sila yung mga kapatid,
05:36mga kamag-anak,
05:37na umaasa sa'yo.
05:39Hmm.
05:39Diba?
05:40Sila yung tutulong sa'yo.
05:41At least.
05:42Oo, achievement sa'kin yun.
05:43I'm super happy for you.
05:45And I'm super happy for myself.
05:47Boy, ikaw na.
