00:00I resent my mother as a mother, but I also feel sorry for my mother as a mother.
00:04as a woman.
00:06Can you go and change your clothes, please?
00:07For what ?
00:08Well, because the guests will be arriving soon.
00:10So what?
00:11And so I would like you to be a little more dressed up.
00:13Seriously, they shouldn't have to see you like that.
00:15Yeah, so it's really arms and legs, I think they've already seen them in their
00:18life.
00:19And besides that, they're really your age, so if it shocks them, it's maybe
00:22-that the problem, kind of.
00:23Well, I don't know, they don't need to look at how I'm dressed.
00:26Seriously, Rachel, is it too much to ask you to make an effort?
00:29Damn, but your son there, who's being held captive, you don't say anything to him?
00:31So no, sorry, but I'm not going to change.
00:34Well, in any case, it's very good.
00:36I think you've improved a lot in the kitchen.
00:38Well, listen, thank you, that's kind, but I didn't cook, Alec did.
00:41Because he cooks.
00:44He cooks almost everything within himself.
00:46Well, you're lucky.
00:48Just so you know, your father didn't eat enough to cook, I don't even know...
00:51'He knows how to cook pasta.'
00:53Well, you know what? You should let him fend for himself a little bit.
00:57Because if there's nothing to eat, he'll have to make something for himself.
00:59Seriously, Mom, he's 50 years old.
01:01If he doesn't know how to cook something, there's a slight problem.
01:04The truth is, he's just pretending to do wrong so that it's up to you to...
01:07TO DO.
01:08It's okay, stop making a drama out of everything, it's not that serious.
01:10And it's always been like that, I'm used to it.
01:13And you know, you're just lucky, but it's not at all the
01:15normality.
01:16On the contrary, even.
01:19I'm dreaming.
01:20What is this?
01:21Nothing, nothing, it's just my mother annoying me.
01:25Basically, she's having a dinner party for her birthday tomorrow and she asked me to come and help her with it.
01:29prepare.
01:29So I told him yes, but I just asked him if my brother was going to help too.
01:33But she told me no.
01:34No, no, because poor little guy, he doesn't know how to do it, so he's going to do it a bit wrong.
01:38What.
01:39What a load of crap!
01:41No, really, he's going to tell me that at his old age, he doesn't know how to do anything.
01:43No, but I swear, she annoys me so much sometimes.
01:46Actually, not just her, in fact, that whole family makes me uneasy.
01:50I'm so glad I live alone now, because otherwise I wouldn't be able to anymore.
01:53And at the same time, sometimes I think about it and I...
01:56I think to myself that now she's doing everything all by herself, like they're incompetent.
01:59Yeah.
01:59I know I had that thought a few years ago.
02:03I was thinking back a bit on the education I had and I was too upset to see the difference
02:08that they had done.
02:09And then, I felt sad.
02:11How so ?
02:12Actually, I'm angry at my mother as a mother.
02:18But I feel sorry for my mother as a woman.
02:20I mean, it pisses me off to see that she raised me with all those misogynistic things.
02:23But then I thought to myself that she, too, grew up with it.
02:26And now it's so ingrained in her that it's not even a question anymore, actually.
02:30And besides, I think she's only realizing it now.
02:32than having a boyfriend, a husband who truly loves her, who takes care of her,
02:37Who takes care of the house, who takes care of the kids, who cooks?
02:40It has always been a possibility.
02:42It's just that no one ever told him.
02:44Now, be careful, that doesn't mean it excuses everything they did or everything that
02:47'they said.
02:48No, no, of course not.
02:50But it's true that I don't know, I had never thought of it that way.
02:53I don't know, I don't know, I've never thought of it that way.
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