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ALEX and Alyssa met at an event and bonded over their shared passion for making social media content. They exchanged numbers intending to film together, but eventually the texting turned flirtatious. "At the start I was giving a few hints but she did kind of block things," Alex explained. "But eventually, you know a guy gets his way in." In the past he has found that women date him for the "wrong reasons". He has dwarfism, causing him to have a smaller stature, measuring 4ft. Alex is successful at making social media videos and in the past love interests have only shown affection before on-camera. Alyssa is 5ft7 and said "I've never really dated anyone like Alex, so this is different for me, it's new. But I think it's opening new doors for me." The pair went viral online after posting a video of Alex picking up his taller girlfriend. In response, commenters called him a "child," said it was a "long distance relationship," and questioned whether Alex was rich, suggesting that was the only reason he could get a girl like Alyssa. The judgement has seeped into their real lives. Alex's good friend Chidi doesn't trust Alyssa's intentions. "I've heard stuff about her before, how she likes to use guys for internet clout", he explained. In this episode of Love Don't Judge, Chidi confronts Alyssa about her true feelings towards Alex, even questioning if she has been flirting with other, taller men.

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Chidi - https://www.instagram.com/chid.tate/
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Transcript
00:00I'm five foot seven.
00:01I'm four foot.
00:02In the past, women have dated me for the wrong reasons.
00:05On social media, there'll be people saying,
00:07no, she's using you for clouds just to get mine.
00:10This child is very powerful.
00:12I'm not a child.
00:13I need to stop calling you a child, bro.
00:15My friend Chidi, he has opinion on the relationship.
00:17He doesn't trust me.
00:19I've heard stuff about her before,
00:20and how she likes to use guys for internet clouds.
00:23I just know she's not good for you.
00:25Some of my friends have told me that they've seen you
00:28flirt with other guys.
00:29I don't flirt with other guys.
00:30I don't know what you're talking about.
00:31So hugging below the waist isn't flirting.
00:35This is my gorgeous queen, Alessa.
00:37This is my short king, Alex.
00:39My condition is dwarfism.
00:40It's a condition from birth.
00:42It doesn't really do too much restrictions,
00:44but it just makes me short.
00:46People think I don't get girls,
00:48but I'm here to prove them wrong, you know?
00:50I've never really dated anyone like Alex,
00:52so this is definitely for me, it's new.
00:54It's opening new doors for me to dating him.
00:57My past relationships are all the same.
00:59All the girls I go for are taller than me,
01:02so it's always the same thing.
01:03We went out one day and we were shooting content, right?
01:06But now we were hard launching each other.
01:09So this one video,
01:11he had this bright idea to pick me up in the video.
01:14She didn't believe that I could pick her up.
01:16Yeah.
01:16And I had to convince her that I can, I can.
01:19But that video ended up getting like, what, five million views?
01:22Yeah.
01:23It's crazy.
01:24On social media, there'll be people like,
01:26saying, no, she's using you for clout.
01:29She's using you just to get money.
01:31Some people online saying that,
01:33how can she be with someone so short?
01:35I saw a comment that said,
01:37one adult ticket and one child ticket for Spider-Man.
01:41Yo, it killed me.
01:43Blow an uppercase.
01:45Long distance relationship.
01:48What a short performance, yo.
01:53Damn.
01:54Cake is cake even if it's a cupcake.
01:56I might be rich.
01:57I'm not rich, guys.
01:59We actually picked her down, not up.
02:01Oh my gosh.
02:02This child is very powerful.
02:04I'm not a child.
02:04I need to stop calling you a child, bro.
02:07At night, climbing a ladder.
02:09Wow.
02:10Actually, most of the time, I don't really even respond to the comments.
02:13I just would read them and laugh.
02:14Me, I'd like to like, respond in a positive way.
02:17I'll laugh at the comments to make them realize that I don't care.
02:21First time we met, we met at an event.
02:23I saw him, we were talking about content.
02:25And I asked him, yo, can I get your number?
02:28At first, it was just for content.
02:30But then like, when we started talking.
02:31At the start, I was giving a few hints.
02:34But at the start, she did kind of block things.
02:37But eventually, you know, a guy gets his way in.
02:41Yeah.
02:41It's hard to find like, the person that like, really loves you for you, you know.
02:45In the past, women, some women have dated me for the wrong reasons.
02:49They date me because of things I do online, you know.
02:52There's opinions.
02:53Like, my friend Chidi, he has an opinion on the relationship.
02:56Saying that it's gonna work out the same way as your previous relationships type of thing, yeah.
03:00Yeah, like he doesn't trust me.
03:02He thinks that she's just using me and he thinks he's just gonna leave me.
03:06He's my friend, so I would trust my friend.
03:09But just leaving her for what he says is kind of, you know, it's wrong.
03:15So I feel like he's to give us a chance.
03:17But today, he's coming over.
03:18So we're just gonna talk to him and hopefully he can give Alessa a chance.
03:22I'm kind of just on eggshells right now because I don't know whether what he's gonna say.
03:27And like, if he's gonna just put me on the spot, I'm just a bit nervous.
03:33Damn, he doesn't like me at all.
03:35So it's not even just like a trust thing.
03:37Yeah, maybe it's just trust thing.
03:39But at the same time, he just doesn't like you.
03:42I would like to ask Alessa, like, what's your true intentions for this relationship?
03:45And if it wasn't for the cameras, would you still want him?
03:49For a long time, I've always been telling him to go with girls his own size.
03:53But he doesn't listen.
03:54He goes with people like Alessa.
03:56I've heard stuff about her before and how she likes to like use guys for like internet clouds.
04:01She's definitely flirting with other guys.
04:03I was just a bit worried for him.
04:04In all honesty, I'm worried that like his heart is gonna be broken.
04:07Chidi, what are your concerns about my relationship?
04:10I just know she's like not good for you.
04:13And like this is coming from a friend when the ups are down.
04:17Like she's not gonna maybe be here.
04:19And I'm not just seeing her from hate.
04:20I'm seeing this from there's a pattern.
04:22I know the pattern of like my relationships and stuff.
04:25But like you can't just put that on her.
04:28And why don't you trust Alessa?
04:30Do you remember that time when you guys went to the club?
04:34When you left early, I've heard from other people.
04:37She was with other people and like taller people.
04:39I just think you just need someone that is genuine, you know?
04:45Oh, hello, hello.
04:47Is this love with you and Alex?
04:49Is this actually real?
04:50I mean, yeah.
04:53I'm not faking it if that's what you're saying.
04:56I actually like the guy.
04:58It's real.
04:59What do you like about him?
05:01He's cute.
05:02He's funny.
05:03He's genuine.
05:04He's a genuine guy.
05:05Okay, so this is really real and stuff.
05:07I've never seen like you giving affection.
05:09Could you like show that to me since your intention?
05:12And...
05:12Okay, but like I don't have to prove it to you though.
05:16Like I don't have to prove anything.
05:17Could you tell me like any actions that you have did that shows that your intentions are true maybe?
05:22Well, we go out together.
05:25I mean, even in public like when the cameras are off, stuff like that.
05:28We're actually like, you know, enjoying each other's presence, holding hands, that type of thing.
05:35I know you might not see it, but it's true.
05:38Why do you don't trust me?
05:40You know, I have my suspicions here and there.
05:44I do.
05:45This is my friend after all and I'm looking for the best for him.
05:48Yeah.
05:50Yeah, no.
05:51Don't worry.
05:51I don't want to make him look like a fool.
05:53Some of my friends have told me that they have seen you flirt with other guys.
06:01And I do believe in...
06:03I'm a friendly person, right?
06:05I go, I talk to whoever I want.
06:07I'm very bubbly.
06:08So I don't, I don't see it as flirting.
06:12I don't flirt with other guys.
06:14I don't know what you're talking about.
06:15So hugging below the waist isn't flirting.
06:17Oh, wow.
06:19See, like, like I said, I'm friendly.
06:21Like, I can't tell a guy, you know, don't hug me like that if you aren't still hugging me like
06:26that.
06:27But your kudos told him.
06:28I mean, yeah.
06:30Like him, she's just friendly.
06:31I am.
06:33I feel like she can't convince you though.
06:35I feel like you're a bit rough on us, man.
06:37Yeah.
06:39I don't know how long this could last.
06:41This could literally end next week.
06:42Well, the next six, seven days.
06:45I don't know, but I feel like I'll just give you a chance, you know.
06:50And don't let the comments get to you guys, okay?
06:53Yes.
06:53Nah, you know me, your comment, like.
06:55You've changed me for the better.
06:57I smile more, you know.
06:58Yeah.
06:59And I'm out more, actually, because of you.
07:01But the downside is your people look at me a lot.
07:04And asking about you everywhere I go, it's too much.
07:09But that means I'm always on your mind then.
07:11Yeah.
07:12It's just being in public, a lot of eyes are on us.
07:15That's another thing.
07:16And people approach us.
07:18And yeah, sometimes I like to just have my own space.
07:21We get a lot of stares.
07:22People do look at us a lot.
07:24It's like something wild.
07:26But yeah.
07:26Nah, I'm going to take your girl.
07:28I'm used to it.
07:29I don't know how she feels though, but I'm so used to it.
07:32It's a bit uncomfortable.
07:33Like, I'm just trying to love my life and people are staring at me.
07:36When you came into my life, I realized it's going to be different, but in a good way, you know.
07:40You made me think about how I can look at life differently and more positive.
07:46Because you're always keeping your head up high.
07:49And I respect that about you.
07:51You always keep me on my toes, you know.
07:53I always listen, you know.
07:54And I always push to be that right guy.
07:58Trying to make me a good person.
08:00A better man.
08:01Yeah.
08:01That smile.
08:02I mean, she has the beauty, so I'm just the funny guy, I'd say.
08:10I feel like it works because we two are the same people, you know.
08:13Even though we have differences physically, mentally we're the same.
08:17At the end of the day, it's just about how we feel.
08:21It's not about how others feel.
08:22Message for people who judge me.
08:25I'm just going to say, haters got to just keep hating.
08:27They're just going to keep hating on me because they're jealous.
08:30The more jealous you become, the more views I get.
08:32Haters have to keep hating.
08:34I actually like the negativity because then it can feed us to become better.
08:38I'm happy, you're happy.
08:39Getting on the internet just to hate on another person's love.
08:43It's jealousy.
08:44Yeah.
08:45I wish them the best.
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