00:00My question is, what specific parameters should I now look out for in a potential life partner?
00:05If you don't look in, you will always look out for.
00:10Looking out for implies unexamined desire.
00:15But to have a partner is one thing, and to need it existentially is a totally different thing.
00:22Please get the difference.
00:23And when that center, that desperate, that unexamined center is at the root of the relationship,
00:32the relationship will never be auspicious, never.
00:36Let your relationships come in a natural way, without conditions, without desperation, without bondages.
00:44Instead, what we see among youngsters is a terrible kind of desperation, obsession.
00:52But how can that become the center of life?
00:57There is much more to life than hooking up with someone.
01:04Don't limit your possibilities.
01:08Don't give it such a narrow definition.
01:11Don't say that to be young is to be mated.
01:17That is not the central question of life.
01:22Bye.
01:23Bye.
01:28Bye.
01:43Bye.
01:44Bye.
01:48Bye.
01:49Bye.
