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“You only have one life to live, why not live it to the fullest?” Vicente Tangcueco III left Manila’s lively Tondo and Chinatown for Singapore on an MOE Asean Scholarship. From battling loneliness to forming tight-knit bonds with Asean friends through their band, TVIP, he embraced Singapore’s vibrant culture. Now thriving as an educator, entertainer, and entrepreneur, Vicente blends his Filipino heritage with Singlish charm as he pursues his passions and works to uplift Asean from his new home.

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00:00It's kind of like the same script, but then I felt that I wanted a bit more than that.
00:04So I took the chance to go overseas.
00:07Hi, my name is Vicente.
00:23I'm 31 years old now.
00:25I'm like Filipinas.
00:27Pinoy Pride.
00:28Hi, I'm Vicente.
00:30I'm 31 this year, and I'm from the Philippines.
00:33So I came from the city of Manila, and in Manila there's a few districts, so I grew up in the streets of Tondo.
00:40But I also grew up in the streets of Chinatown, and then when we go to Chinatown, we mix around with the local Filipino-Chinese.
00:47Kind of similar to Singapore's kampung spirit, but this one you can see it in the Chinese community.
00:52We're a family of four.
00:55So two older brothers, two younger sisters.
00:58I'm actually the eldest.
00:59My dad is a technician.
01:02He owns a small shop in Chinatown area.
01:04My mom, she graduated in Philippines as an interior designer, but she gave up the interior design work because she wanted to take care of the four of us.
01:15And bringing us to school, making sure that we get the proper education, cooking for us really good meals.
01:20Sometimes when I come to Singapore, the food I miss the most is like my mom's cooking.
01:25When I came to Singapore, it was quite a big change.
01:27Actually, I have a senior.
01:29She was from the same school, and we used to do this mathematics trainer's guild.
01:34Her sister actually got a scholarship to come to Singapore.
01:37Then my mom found out about it and said, like, okay, why don't you try?
01:41Then sent me to take the same scholarship she took.
01:43It was the MOE ASEAN scholarship.
01:45And when I got accepted, I was thinking, my mom told me I have a choice.
01:49It's either I can choose to stay or I take it.
01:52But she pushed me towards taking it because it would be a better life.
01:57For me, I was thinking of, okay, if I stay in the Philippines, I'm going to be doing this exact same thing as everyone.
02:03It's kind of like the same script that everyone has.
02:05But then I felt that I wanted a bit more than that, so I took the chance to go overseas because at least it would expose me to a more global education.
02:14And I know that Singapore has one of the world's best education systems.
02:18At first, I was scared.
02:19Okay, what if I don't do well in Singapore as well as I did in the Philippines?
02:23But then I felt that if I didn't do well, at least I went overseas, experienced other culture, get to know more perspective, and took the leap of faith.
02:35Life was tough when I first came to Singapore.
02:41Initially, I felt homesick.
02:43When I first came here, the first week was tough because my mom had to be with me.
02:48But then when my mom left after a week, that was after New Year's, then I had to start school.
02:53It felt quite lonely because I was left alone.
02:57And it was the first time in so long that I was alone on my own.
02:59Sometimes that loneliness, you're not sure what to do.
03:02And you feel kind of isolated and secluded.
03:04I used to board at this hostel called River Valley High School Hostel.
03:09That hostel was quite unique because River Valley, the other S.A.N. people, like the Vietnamese, the Thai, the Malaysians, the Indonesians, they were quite friendly.
03:18And then I was able to connect with them because we all need to learn English better and improve our English.
03:24So, yeah, we started spending a lot of time together.
03:27And because of that, we kind of like formed a band together.
03:31And it's called like TVIP.
03:33So, Thailand, Vietnamese, Indonesia, Philippines.
03:36We actually performed our first debut performance during Racial Harmony Day.
03:40And I think that was like the first time I felt like, oh, actually, even though we're all from different countries, we actually can mingle and come to a common understanding.
03:50And I think like Singapore actually helped to bridge that gap.
03:54So, at least we can intermingle and learn from each other's culture to become better citizens of the world.
04:00Initially, when I came here, my Filipino accent is quite strong.
04:08Now I can still hear a bit, but like sometimes like people see I look Chinese, speak a bit of Singlish.
04:14Okay, they know I'm a foreigner, but sometimes I can pass off as a Singaporean.
04:18Actually, when I was younger, I was trained to speak Hokkien back at home.
04:22So, when I came here and I hear the Hokkien, I can understand.
04:26The interesting part is when I made friends with the Indonesians, they also know how to speak Hokkien.
04:31And their Hokkien is similar to Singapore Hokkien.
04:34Okay, so in Malay is Lu, but then like in Indo is also Lu.
04:38But in Philippine Hokkien, it's Di.
04:41But it's also similar to the Taiwan Hokkien of Di.
04:44When I'm in Singapore, it feels like all the languages just come together.
04:47At first, I was a bit hesitant of speaking Singlish.
04:50But over time, I mean like why not just speak Singlish lah.
04:53I mean like I'm in Singapore and I've been here for half my life already.
04:57So, I think it's quite an endearing language also.
05:00To be able to say things as quickly as possible in the shortest amount of time.
05:05For me, it became very natural.
05:07But when I go back to Philippines, I was teased for having the foreigner kind of accent.
05:12So, now when I go back to Philippines and I speak English with them.
05:16In Singapore context, this is what they would say to me.
05:18Wah, your English so atas ah.
05:20So, what's interesting right now is like whenever I go back, I had to like re-adjust to the Philippine way of speaking in English.
05:26So that I can re-integrate back with them and become a local Filipino Chinese.
05:32One of my favorite memories in Singapore was when I was in JC.
05:36Because when I first came here in secondary school, I had good friends.
05:40But I didn't feel like I belonged yet.
05:42And I think it changed when I went to JC because now everyone starts from a clean slate.
05:48And the best part about JC, especially SAJC, is that there's a very strong school spirit.
05:55So, it made me feel that for the first time, like I can make Singapore my home.
06:00And there were a lot of good memories in JC.
06:03So, this is the roundabout where we chased after the bus after A-levels.
06:09We wanted to see like who is faster.
06:11Is it us or is it the bus?
06:12It turned out in the end, the bus was faster.
06:15Only one of us managed to reach the finish line and was faster than the bus.
06:19In order to save pace for some of us, we cheated.
06:22We just cut through the roundabout and just like went straight to the bus stop in order to say we beat the bus.
06:27And we had a friend filming inside the bus to tell us that we actually did this.
06:33I think the first time I recognized that Singapore was a good brand name was when I got my first job as a, I would say it's like IT Pakaliao.
06:43Whenever like my bosses go overseas to basically sign contracts about like building a solar power plant for them,
06:50it's always very interesting to see that, oh, okay, your headquarters is in Singapore.
06:54Very good, very reliable.
06:55And I think Singapore was quite smart to be able to build this within 50 years to create that strong brand image such that people will trust the brand.
07:02And make sure that they want to do business with Singapore for a long time.
07:07And I hope it stays.
07:08So what I do right now, normally when I go out and tell people what I do, three simple things.
07:15I'm an educator.
07:16I'm an entertainer.
07:17And I'm an entrepreneur.
07:19Educator, easy lah.
07:20I'm here in the school.
07:21And today is like racial harmony day.
07:23Then as part of being an educator, I also do life coaching.
07:27Then as an entertainer, this is the fun part.
07:29Entertainer.
07:29You can always combine with education.
07:31I work as a magician.
07:33So sometimes like on the weekends, when you don't see me around teaching, I go around performing to people in the streets.
07:39In ancient China, they have this thing called the Oracle Bones.
07:43In Chinese, it's called jia hu wen.
07:45So you write random words in front, random words behind.
07:49But if you give it a shake, you will see the lines moving closer.
07:52When you shake even harder, you will see that the words start forming.
07:55And when it forms, maybe it's time that you should come to Singapore as well.
08:03So why I do all these things is because, you know, you only have one life to live.
08:08Why not live it to the fullest?
08:09And if I can help people to do that, that would be fun too.
08:12And the reason why I do that for myself is, I've already come to Singapore.
08:16I've already broken away.
08:17I have a lot of freedom.
08:18When you grow up and grow old in life, and you ask yourself the question,
08:22did I ever live a fulfilling life?
08:24At least for me, I would answer that, yes.
08:26I did what I could with the best that I can.
08:29So why not just chase after your dreams and go for it all out?
08:33If not, you're living someone else's life, not yours.
08:36So my future plan is to be able to give back to ASEAN.
08:41And since Singapore is at the center point and has been the link that connects ASEAN to other countries as well,
08:47I want to be able to operate in Singapore and make ASEAN great together with Singapore.
08:53Dear Vicente,
08:55Congrats on making it this far.
08:57Magaling at mahusay ang ginawa mo.
08:59Pero alala mo na lang saan kagaling.
09:02Yadzik ang ko.
09:03But I promise you, the rewards you will reap will be far greater than anything you can ever imagine.
09:10Unlock the path that will bring you to live your life to the fullest.
09:14Di o di kay kilang.
09:16So make it count.
09:17Tikim mo lahat ng maibibigay sa iyo ng Singapore.
09:21No matter what happens,
09:23embrace your freedom and treasure every moment of it.
09:28Go and live your life to the fullest.
09:30Your better self,
09:33Vicente.
09:33Yeah.
09:37Can happen.
09:39Solo.
09:40Va Daseli.
09:45Okay.
09:46Okay.
09:47betrayal.
09:48Go and how.
09:52It's here.
09:54Let's begin.
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