00:00 This is Stephanie. She fell in love with...
00:03 ...Maziah.
00:04 We have two other wives.
00:06 She's bisexual, so we was like, let's just get another girlfriend.
00:10 Stephanie now shares her husband with two sister wives...
00:14 ...Rosa and Desiree.
00:17 I can smell the low self-esteem.
00:19 They are now going to take more drastic measures to please their husband...
00:22 ...and have decided to go under the knife.
00:25 I do encourage plastic surgery.
00:27 It does make the woman's appearance look better.
00:30 Not sure what I want to wear yet, but I think it wants to be brown, neutral color.
00:33 I think we should do nude because we have so much nude...
00:36 ...and we could like correspond together.
00:38 Maziah usually likes us to wear something that coordinates.
00:41 We kind of go with the same color scheme, but we have our individual style.
00:46 We decided to bring other people into our life when we split apart.
00:49 We were like, man, let's just get another girlfriend...
00:53 ...because she's bisexual, so we was like, let's do it.
00:55 We have two other wives.
00:57 This is Rose. She was our second addition to our relationship.
01:00 It's been about five years that we've all three been together.
01:04 Hey, I'm Desiree.
01:06 Desiree is the most recent addition to our family.
01:09 [Laughter]
01:14 Some of the main challenges of being poly for me and the guys...
01:18 ...this is for you, Rose...
01:19 ...is dealing with their emotions.
01:21 It switches all the time.
01:23 I think we should call Bear because I don't know what would match best.
01:28 -Bear! -Oh, God.
01:30 I need help with this.
01:32 I love it. You feel me?
01:33 I actually get to pick out what they like and what they want to wear.
01:37 [Groaning]
01:38 Yeah, I pick that.
01:41 That's Rose-y, that's Steph, and that's this.
01:45 Yeah, I like all of them.
01:46 I got to take a picture of it for sure.
01:48 So when we started this relationship, we had a lot of judgment from people...
01:51 ...saying like, "Ew, how can you do that?
01:53 How can you share your man with another woman?"
01:56 And now that we added a third person, the judgment is just beyond now...
02:01 ...than it was in the beginning.
02:02 And it's funny because we've probably been in a poly relationship...
02:05 ...longer than most monogamous relationships.
02:08 Some of the comments we get online, one of them was like...
02:11 ...she came back as a side chick to her own baby dad.
02:15 The other one was like, "Just stupid as f---."
02:18 "I can just smell the low self-esteem."
02:21 But if you go look at these people pages and look at the people...
02:25 ...then you can see why they...
02:27 These comments don't make me feel any type of way.
02:30 It just makes me a better person. It makes me stronger.
02:33 It makes me come closer to my wives.
02:35 And no matter what anybody says, it doesn't affect us.
02:39 Yeah, she said.
02:41 The most common misconception that people have about our relationship...
02:44 ...is probably about the sex.
02:46 Yeah, like affections and stuff like that...
02:49 ...because we're sharing multiple body fluids around.
02:53 Here we know, we clean, we wash.
02:55 It's not just about sex. It's about unity. It's about family.
02:58 Big financial sustainability and support.
03:01 There's a lot of positive comments, but when we get posted by other people...
03:05 -Like, "No." -Yeah.
03:07 You see the negativity, but for the most part, a lot of people support us.
03:10 My friends and my family were kind of iffy about the relationship.
03:15 They were kind of taken back because it's not the social norm.
03:19 So it did cause a little...
03:21 -A little... -A little shakiness.
03:24 But that didn't really...
03:26 -Stop you. -...stop me.
03:28 Yeah, it didn't really affect the way I feel about everybody in the relationship.
03:33 Now, how can I describe the appearance of my ideal woman?
03:38 Angelina Jolie. Hi. No, I'm kidding.
03:41 I am planning on getting plastic surgery.
03:43 The plastic surgery that I would like to get is my boobies.
03:48 So since she spoke about getting plastic surgery and stuff like that,
03:51 the other wives also been mentioning plastic surgery.
03:54 Rose, she want a BBL, I believe.
03:57 Des also want boobs.
04:00 I can't wait either.
04:01 We'll be wearing a bikini right with you.
04:03 How exciting. We're all gonna look so much better.
04:06 Ah!
04:09 We already look good.
04:10 You know, we got the personality and now we're just doing a little enhancement.
04:15 Ladies, so while you guys were doing nails,
04:18 I went ahead and drew the ideal body shape on the back of this paper
04:21 that I would love you guys' body to look like.
04:23 -You drew? -After surgery.
04:25 [ Both laugh ]
04:27 -Okay. -Ready?
04:30 -What? -Ah!
04:31 [ Laughter ]
04:33 Look at that.
04:35 Why is one boob bigger than the other?
04:39 I don't like it the same size.
04:41 Okay. Great. I love it, babe.
04:43 I love the effort.
04:45 But can we show you what we want our ideal body shape?
04:49 -Sure. -I'm not a good drawer, but okay.
04:52 ♪♪
04:57 -Okay. -Yeah.
04:58 -It's in sight. -Nice.
05:02 [ Laughter ]
05:04 So...
05:06 So you put your arms in your booty.
05:10 Why your feet so big?
05:12 What did you have surgery -- I like you just the way you were.
05:16 You ain't getting surgery no more.
05:18 I'm cool off of that.
05:21 If my wife became out of shape, I would tell them,
05:24 'cause we're dating to be real and open and honest with each other.
05:27 The type of exercise we do to stay in shape are weight training.
05:30 We do yoga. We stretch.
05:32 We are gonna get surgery soon,
05:34 so we probably will have to take it easy,
05:37 but that doesn't mean we're gonna stop.
05:39 We still got to keep up this shape.
05:40 Whoo!
05:42 Nah, y'all do look good as hell, though. I ain't gonna lie.
05:44 But, yeah, we're gonna do the boobies for Steph, for sure.
05:49 Then we're gonna get the boobies for Daz.
05:52 [ Laughter ]
05:53 Then we're gonna get the snatch waist for Rosy.
05:57 [ Laughter ]
05:59 [ Mumbling ]
06:03 People may think that Mazea's trying to control us
06:05 because of the dynamic that they don't understand,
06:07 but they're not in our relationship.
06:09 -Cheers. -Cheers.
06:11 We want to be here. We do things because we want to.
06:14 This is not something that anybody's forced to be here.
06:17 If you want to leave, you can leave.
06:19 He'll tell you that.
06:20 Having a sister wife is a big benefit to our life
06:23 because, you know, we have a long life,
06:25 and to depend on someone who can help us.
06:28 Yeah, being in a poly relationship is super empowering.
06:31 I enjoy being around women that I can learn from.
06:34 And on top of the fact that I am bisexual,
06:37 so I do love women.
06:38 -Hey, we got snacks. -Ooh.
06:41 -What you doing? -Uh...
06:43 Y'all, surgery. That's what I'm doing.
06:45 -Oh, yeah? -Ooh.
06:47 -Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. -Yeah.
06:50 I do encourage plastic surgery,
06:52 only because it does make the woman's appearance look better
06:55 and make her have way more higher self-esteem.
06:58 It's really nice having three wives.
07:00 I plan to pay for all these surgeries
07:02 with all this money, to be honest.
07:05 I'm gonna pay straight cash, homie.
07:07 What I really love to say to the people that judge us
07:09 and that judge yourself before you try to judge somebody else,
07:12 taking a hard, long look in that mirror,
07:13 you love each other,
07:15 and that's what sets us apart from a lot of other people.
07:17 If we ain't got no haters, we ain't poppin', nah.
07:19 What I love most about being poly
07:21 is the large family, the support system, the love,
07:25 like, multiple people showing you love all at the same time,
07:29 and the girls.
07:30 [ Laughs ]
07:32 I know why our relationship works so well,
07:34 'cause how dope we are individually,
07:36 and for us to put all the individual stuff aside
07:39 and be able to come together as a team.
07:41 Teamwork make the dream work.
07:42 And green work make team work.
07:43 [ Laughter ]
07:45 This is poly.
07:46 -Too big. -Po-L, baby.
07:48 [ Laughter ]
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